I am so often "inspired" to write a message when I see interesting posts on Facebook. This one came after I saw an image of a car that someone had spray painted the following words on: "I hope she was worth it."
Various people were talking about how childish it was to damage property that way. This was my response.
"Ever heard that Carrie Underwood song? 'I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4-wheel drive . . . '
I never damaged anything, but when I was in the middle of dealing with divorcing my cheating husband, I used to belt that out at the top of my lungs. It was a powerful form of energy release. And it used to make me laugh.
There are a ton of emotions that get involved in romance, especially when sex is involved. Never underestimate the power of a woman scorned. She is liable to do absolutely anything. And most of it is pure adrenaline. The level of her love is the level of her rage.
Love is not a rational emotion. Nor is the pain and anguish of a break up. There are people who will literally commit suicide because their guy or girl breaks up with them and for at least a temporary amount of time they just don't think they can live or breath without the other person.
Its sad. And yes, some actions are absolutely childish.
However, humans are not automatons who run on logic. They are emotional beings that get bent out of shape over things. It makes them interesting. It also makes them dangerous on occasion.
I say always treat others the way you wish to be treated. If you can't handle your anger then get help. Learn to laugh. Learn to love yourself no matter what happens. It makes loving others a whole lot easier.
Have a deLightful day,